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【生命啟廸】性格不是性格 只是我執的一種──音樂人馮禮慈的「開心」旅程

圖:馮禮慈
文:活一番

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從「唧都唔笑」到「笑笑笑笑」,音樂人馮禮慈近年來的變化,確實算得上驚人!

以前,性格內向怕事,時常焦慮擔憂的馮先生,確實沉默是金。即使同枱吃飯,他可以完全不參與對話,眼神接觸近乎零。心裏知道他的為人很好的,也許這就是藝術家性格吧?雖說如此,與他相處的時候,也難免感到忐忑不安……。

聽他的太太許素瑩說,馮老爺不習慣接觸陌生人,也不習慣陌生環境,故不喜歡到外地旅遊。或許因為缺乏安全感,他說會容易緊張。

男人與海……
男人與海……

沒想到,他經過數年學習打坐禪修,性格有了180度轉變。「性格,也是我執的一種。」這是他的金句之一。「放下」、「無我」之類的概念,加上有系統的禪修訓練,以往只能與少數熟人相處,連與多幾位同事應酬也怕得要死的馮先生,現在變得談笑風生,更樂於主動與陌生人分享內心那份強大的喜樂。以前對於人生種種的恐懼,例如疾病,也看開了很多很多。

奪命女殺手……
奪命女殺手……

性格不是一切,一切都可改變……馮先生作了漂亮的示範!

感謝馮先生為「活一番」精心炮製的畫作!笑笑笑,你我他她牠它都有份!

財神運吉來……與女兒Sara到老人院當義工
財神運吉來……與女兒Sara到老人院當義工

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